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First row (left to right) Carter Hubley, Mason Hubley, Josh Epstein, Jarad Garland, Wesley Coward, Jake Burton, Cole Burton, Bennett Hubley. Second row: Sr. Inst. Courtney Hubley, Beth Epstein, Casena Garland, Amy Coward, Andrea Burton, Hope Burton, Sr. Inst. Kathy Hubley. Third row: Henry Branch, Carter Branch, Austin Long, Joshua Long, Hunter Long, Laura Bratton, Hannah Bratton, Rafael Fonesca, Rylee Chester, Greyson Chester, Megan Bradley, Connor Stephens, Caroline Stephens. Back row: Kim Branch, Amy Long, Cindy Bratton, Alisha Fonesca, Monica Chester, Kim Bradley and Susan Wallace (photo by Roslyn Ryan)


Martial arts moms get kicks alongside kids

By Richard Carrier
Contributing Writer


May 14, 2008

Their motives are as varied as their ages, the ages of their children and their degree of achievement, but the mothers who train with their children at Martial Arts World of Powhatan are all enthusiastic about the experience.

Monica Chester and her 10-year old son Grayson have trained in the program together for the last three years and recently tested, together, for the coveted black belt.

Five-year-old daughter, Rylee has been in the program for only five months and has already earned her yellow belt.

“Second level yellow belt,” she was quick to point out.

Mother has lost 40 pounds and enjoys the three or four times per week cardio training. Grayson is thrilled with his new black belt, but sees great benefit in getting “physically, morally and mentally fit”

Kim Brady joins 11-year-old daughter Megan and son William on the mats every week. After a year and a half, Kim has reached green belt status, and Megan’s two and a half years have earned her red. William has earned yellow in just six months.

But it is not the belts which Kim Brady finds the most rewarding.

“It does wonders for the kids, teaches them self-respect, discipline and respect for their elders. And this is such a close-knit group of kids who care about each other.

“It’s the best thing I’ve ever done,” Megan echoed.

Beth Epstein started in the program just last year, while her son Joshua, 8, has been kicking and chopping for over two years. Joshua is a deputy black belt, the last step before training for full black belt status.

“I’m blessed that he’s been a part of me and although this revolves around him, my goals are to get exercise, get fit and share with my son.”

Joshua is a bit more pragmatic. “Its fun, but I’d give everything to get my black belt, become an instructor and even become a master.”

Andrea Burton and her 7- year-old son, Cole, have both been at Martial Arts World since 2005. Andrea is also on staff at MAW and it is probably not surprising that she holds a first degree black belt. But then again, so does the very young Cole. Burton sees her benefits as being with her family and gaining a great deal of self confidence, plus “I’m honing my skill and it makes me badder,” she grinned. 

Cole has his sights set on being a grand master. Five-year-old Jake Burton is a year and a half into the program and will test for his black belt this year. Three-year-old Hope has just started training.

Casena Garland started with the program in 2005 and is a first degree black belt Training Instructor. Her son Jarad started a year prior and is also a first degree black belt.

“It’s a high stress reliever for me,” Ms. Garland stated. “And has also helped me to build up stamina and rebuild muscles damaged in an automobile accident.”

Jarad agrees that the program helps to relieve stress but also “helps you to become a better person,”

Kim Branch is a relative newcomer to the program. Just five months in and a white belt, she followed her seven-year-old son Henry into the program.

Henry, also a white belt, looked like he was having so much fun that Kim decided to join also. “Plus it was providing structure,” she said. She brought four-year-old daughter, Carter, along with her.

Amy Coward is another newcomer, but she has already earned her white belt. Her six-year-old son, Wesley is already up to blue belt status.

“It’s a healthy thing to do and we can do it together,” said Ms. Coward.

“I just like the whole thing,” Wesley simplified.

Alisha Fonseca joined with her seven-year-old son Rafael just two and a half months back. Both have earned yellow belts.

“Its great discipline for the children and I get to be together with my son,” Alisha Fonesca said.

“I like doing the punches,” Rafael added.

Susan Wallace is the newest recruit, being at MAW only one month. Her son, Connor, a ten-year-old red belt had been with the program for three years along with his 12-year-old sister, Caroline, also a red belt.

“My friends go here and I kind of brought Mom into it,” Connor said.

“And I didn’t realize just how much I would enjoy it,” confessed his mom.

“It really is fun. I have my friends here, I learn new things and we have great instructors,” Caroline added.

Cindy Bratton kind of came in the back door of Martial Arts World. “We won a raffle a year ago and the prize was instruction for the girls at MAW. I watched them for a month and they were having so much fun I had to get into it,” she admitted. “I do it for better health and it’s a positive place to come.”

Her bunch includes 11-year-old green belt Hannah and 10-year-old green belt Laura.

“I like doing it with my sister and mom,” Hannah Bratton said.

“Its fun,” Laura Bratton added.

Amy Long has been in the program for two years and has achieved a blue belt with brown status. She is far from alone in her endeavors. Her three sons, Hunter, 9 Josh, 7, and Austin, 5 have punched and kicked right alongside their mom.

Hunter and Josh both hold blue with brown belts and Austin is a white belt.

“We all started around the same time and it had developed into friendships, great exercise and flexibility,” Mom said.

Hunter agreed. “It’s all about friends.”



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by Clayton of Powhatan May. 22, 2008, 04:39 PM

Enough said...like I’ve said, the article provided all the facts needed.

The school where I attend graduates maybe 1 to 3 black belts a year.  And I’m talking a school with many students that has been around for over 20 years.  The black belt test is about 3 to 4 hours long.  It actually means something to earn it.

Thanks for not answering my question.  It proved my point.


by No Martial Arts Expert of Powhatan May. 22, 2008, 02:18 PM

For additional information on the curriculum, you will need to call the center directly.


by Clayton of Powhatan May. 22, 2008, 09:29 AM

Well, first of all, you say that you don’t believe that any one person is better than another.  That’s a silly statement.  Of course they are.  There are different quality schools and different quality instructors.

I’m not making negative comments, I’ve simply observing the facts.  Any school where a 5 year old can earn a black belt does not have serious standards of difficulty.

Answer me this?  For the individual participant, how long is a typical test?  That is, how long is the person “on the floor” actually doing material?  And what did the school charge you to test?

It may make you feel better to call me ignorant and rude.  It doesn’t change the facts. Visit other schools, go to open tournaments, get attacked on the street, and then tell me how good your training was.

And I think you mean that you’ve spoken your “piece.” I’m not sure how you can speak “my peace.” I’m no expert, but that kind of comment seems ignorant to me.


by No Martial Arts Expert of Powhatan of powhatan May. 22, 2008, 07:12 AM

I’m not an instructor, and I feel fortunate to be surrounded by many people who are more experienced than I, and are out there to learn and better themselves.  I don’t believe that any one person is better than another.  I guess I just have to wonder what would prompt a person to make negative comments publicly about a place and people in which they have no knowledge.  I’m no expert, but that kind of comment seems ignorant and rude to me.  I’ve spoken my peace.


by Clayton May. 20, 2008, 08:58 PM

Gee, I can tell by the person who was not willing to sign his or her actual name that they are really teaching the “martial arts way” at the school.

Sounds like I hit a sensitive nerve.

One of my great instructors made a comment to me of “don’t work out with bums because eventually you’ll start looking like them.” To be better, you surround yourself with people better than yourself.  You don’t compete in tournaments only against your other school members but test your skills against other schools.  If anyone from the school had the confidence to compete in “non-school” tournaments, you could “see what I got” anytime.

I notice there was no comment with facts against my statements.  Thank you for that.


by No Martial Arts Expert of Powhatan May. 19, 2008, 03:25 PM

I suggest Clayton make a site visit, share some constructive advice from his extensive experience, and show us what he’s got.


by Clayton of Powhatan May. 16, 2008, 10:01 PM

I think it’s great to discuss martial arts for exercise.  But the number of black belts being given out (it’s hard to say folks earned it) suggest some lax standards.  When 5 and 9 year olds (I’d say almost anyone under 13) can pass a real black belt test, one has to wonder what standards are in place.  After all, if it easy, anyone would do it.  In this case, a 5 year old can do it.  Give me a break!

These folks may be losing weight and improving their self-esteem.  But they should not be duped into thinking that 3 years of martial arts and being given a black belt makes them a real martial artist.  I feel bad when I see folks in this position and they don’t even know they are being taken advantage of my these “mass marketers” of black belts.


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